Interview with Aaron, Jessica, Walter, Margaret and Sherry
JM: Did you find it difficult to get along with other inmates? Please give examples to explain why you did or didn't. Aaron: I kept to myself at first to scout out who was cool and who
wasn't. My roommate was a real nice guy that had many friends
inside so I was introduced to the right people when I started
coming out of my shell. I got along with many people there
because of my intellect and willingness to help people with their
cases or just to listen to why they were in the same place I was.
The people that I didn't get along with were, in all cases, those
that I was never approached by for regular conversation. These
were people that were accustomed to being around people that
argued alot or were aggressive in their tactics of getting their
point across. I also did not get along with those people that
were always trying to con me out of food or items in my
possession. On the most part I got along with people there. Jessica: I kept to myself pretty much. Sat in my cell
and read. Walter: Not really. I get along with people fairly
easily, especially where business is concerned.
I was in for 4 months out of the 6 I was
sentenced to and didn't get in a single fight.
Generally speaking, give respect and it will be
given back. Margaret: I GOT ALONG FINE WITH THE OTHER INMATES, BECAUSE
I KEPT TO MYSELF, AND DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING.
ALTHOUGH A FIGHT DID BREAK OUT IN THERE, BECAUSE
SOMEONE WAS NOT HAPPY WITH THEIR SENTENCE Sherry: Yes it was difficult because you are with people
who have committed some serious crimes and they
dont have any respect for anyone, or morals or
values even if you have made a mistake.
JM: What types of things did you have to do to avoid problems or fights with other inmates? Aaron: Exercised or read in my cell. I also made sure that I was around
those that I had a positive connection with when I ate my meals
or watched TV. I avoided playing basketball with aggressive
people that took things way to personally. Once I grabbed a few
salt packets off of a table that I was not sitting at before I went
to eat in my room since I was having one of "those days". An
inmate yelled at me for not saying "excuse me" which he was
right in saying but he took things too far and when I lashed back
at him verbally for reacting the way he did we almost came to
blows. We were cool before that instance so it was no problem
for me to apologize to him later on that day. He admitted that
he was also having a bad day and attributed that to the reason
why he reacted that way towards me. Jessica: I kept to myself, didn't really talk to a lot of
people. Walter: Hold my own and stand up for myself. If you let
other inmates take advantage of you, it's
something you'll never break. I was a POD
trustee so I took it upon myself to look out
somewhat for my fellow inmates. If they needed a
clean towel or a garbage bag or a clean
toothbrush or more soap, they often came to me
because they knew I would help them out, so I
was well liked. Margaret: AS LONG AS YOU STAY TO YOURSELF, AND DONT ARGUE
WITH SOMEONE, YOU WERE OKAY. SOME OF THE WOMEN
THAT CAME THROUGH THERE LOOKED PRETTY ROUGH, SO
YOU COULDN'T HELP BUT TO STARE. BUT THAT WOULD
ALWAYS CAUSE A FIGHT. SO I JUST WOULDN'T STARE
AT ANY OF THE WOMEN. Sherry: Well, I signed up to be a trustee worker, so I
kepted busy with work, and I also took some
classes like GED even though I have my High
School Diploma, I went to church on the weekends
and I also did bible study and chat, I also read
alot.
JM: Were you able to choose an inmate as your cellmate if you knew one? How often would your cellmate(s) change? Aaron: No. I was put into a cell with a guy that had the cell to himself for
three weeks. When he was moved to his own cell upstairs, I was
given a new roommate. When that guy was transferred out of the
jail, within an hour I was given a problem inmate as a roommate
until he was kicked out of our pod for not going to work. Jessica: No, roommates were assigned to cells. Walter: There are no cells in FRJ. It is an open bay
dorm styled jail. But on occasion depending on
which Dep. was on duty and the mood they were
in, it was possible to get in a "cubicle" with
people you know Margaret: I WAS NOT ALLOWED TO CHOOSE MY ROOMATE. EVERY
WEEK YOU WOULD GET A NEW ROOMATE, BECAUSE
SOMEONE EITHER LEFT, OR GOT BONDED OUT. THEY
KNEW WHO TO PUT YOU WITH AND WHO NOT TO PUT YOU
WITH. Sherry: You don't have a choice on who is your cellmate,
if you had a problem with your cellmate then
they would change, and cellmates change often
because people are being released all the time.