JM: Did you find it difficult to get along with other inmates? Please give examples to explain why you did or didn't. Lisa: Not at all. I felt bad because I knew that I was
getting out and my circumstances were better
than some of them. I was shocked at the boredom
and having nothing to do. It was really rowdy at
night when everyone finally rolled out of bed
late in the afternoon. All the women were pretty
nice. Bill: No Ron: No, but I was Jail rich. I had tons of phone
cards, two decks of cards, and about $90 bucks in
comisary a week. Therefore I was able to trade
with people, and always had the best books and
stuff like that...I was also very friendly, and
could be generous. I would make games for myself
based on these two guys nobody liked. Like I knew
they loved the juices and oranges, so one day I
made trades and ended up with like 20 juices and
15 oranges...and I would pace back and forth with
all the juices, just giving them away. Keeping some. Cindi: Some were drama filled, but for the most part it was
fine. Most of them slept all day, most were kicking
some drug or substance so they didn't interact a
whole lot for the first week or so that they were
there. Holly: Yes, I found it difficult because the inmates are so
angry and a lot of them were friends before. The
women are very angry and many of them are detoxing
from drugs or alcohol so it is a very hostile
environment.
JM: What types of things did you have to do to avoid problems or fights with other inmates? Lisa: I talk too much so I kept my mouth shut. I
didn't ask personal information unless it was
offered. Like I said, I thought all of us got
along pretty well. There were no fights that I
witnessed and everyone treated each other pretty
fair. Bill: I kept to myself and read the Bible. I talked
with some of the inmates about general topics
such as how long they were there, offenses Ron: One most everybody was cool except for two people.
But I had a lot of people that had my back. Namely
this big stupid Mexican dude who had 9 months to
go...I was very nice to him, and gave him free
food, and explained his legal matters, and relayed
a message for him...I didn't really like the guy,
but I deceided I wanted the person nobody wanted
to mess with on my side. Cindi: I sat on my bunk and read a lot of books or I wrote
letters or I tried my best to sleep the day away.
There really isn't a lot to do or a place to go to
get away from people so you just did what you could
to be nice to everyone. Holly: I had to share food with other inmates and listen to
their problems in order to avoid problems. I also
had to figure out the social rules for the housing
unit because there were unspoken rules that you only
know about after you have been there for awhile. I
also had to be careful who I hung out with.
JM: Were you able to choose an inmate as your cellmate if you knew one? How often would your cellmate(s) change? Lisa: No, but I didn't know anyone so the point is
moot. Ron: No, their were not a whole lot of choices in the
process. Cindi: I was in a dorm with 18 other women. So we had bunk
mates that we did not choose and those did not
change unless some one left the jail. Holly: I was not able to choose a cellmate, they were just
given. The cellmate changed many times... about 4 or
five times while I was there. It was frustrating
because one of my cellmates was detoxing heavily and
was screaming in her sleep.