Interview with Ford, Miss T, Reta, Julie and Hillary
JM: What else would you want a friend or family member to know if they have a loved one going to this jail? Ford: Yeah get them out on bail and fight the case
from the outside, if you can afford to. Always
looks better coming in from the outside. Tell
your loved one going to jail to be patience and
not disconnect from the people who love him on
the outside. The chips and stakes can be high and
a proper attitude is crucial to come out the
other side intact both mentally and physically. Miss T: Just follow the rules! Keep yourself covered. Reta: to wear their reading glasses in with them if turning yourself in.
and if turning yourself in don't go in "high". you will be tested.
you can and most likely get added day's to your sentence. AT
work furlough you for sure will. take no bags into work furlough
with even an aspirin in it. extra days' just for that alone. very
strict! I was in work furlough too. that is the best place to be if
given a choice and have a few months to do. Julie: Don't worry about them. If they're smart they
wont look for trouble or be the cause of any.
Just answer every call, visit when possible, and
remind them your praying for them. Don't let
them see or hear you cry because theyre in jail,
it's really sad to listen to that. Hillary: i would want a loved one or family member to
know that it gets really lonely in there and the
person going to jail is going to feel really
helpless and this doesnt include all the being
told what to do,the awful food,the uncomfortable
clothes etc
JM: If somebody knows they will be serving time in this jail what is your advice to them? Ford: Mind your business and take advantage of any
programs that may be offered and give forth a
good effort in those programs. They may well help
prevent you from returning to an unpleasant
situation. Miss T: Use your time to try and improve yourself. Do a
lot of self reflection, writing, and prayer. Read
a lot. Know that this too shall pass. Reta: books must be sent by the publisher only. at visiting have your
visitors go early and check in two hours before and then go have
lunch or dinner and return ten minutes prior to actual visiting
times. ladies get your hair colored before you go in if turning
yourself in & a nice manicure/pedicure-it sure makes you feel
good in a horrible place when you always feel like you could cry.
BUT YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT. JUST KEEP TO YOURSELF,
WRITE LOT'S OF LETTER'S, HAVE YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS
VISIT OFTEN. USE IT AS A TIME TO GROW AND SEE HOW STRONG
YOU REALLY ARE. WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU DOES MAKE YOU
STRONGER. Julie: Don't be dumb. :) Hillary: i would advice them to be prepared to go to
sleep and wake up when your told,to listen the
the prison guards,the food is not going to taste
good and just be prepared to lose your freedom
JM: Please list any other jail or rehab facilities you have been to. Hillary: ventura county jail is the only one