JM: Did you find it difficult to get along with other inmates? Please give examples to explain why you did or didn't. Victor: I found it very difficult. I wasn't from the area,
and was not aware of the ignorant rules that these
morons lived by. I found that 90% of inmates are
incorrigible scumbags. I had problems with a lot
of people until I gave someone a serious
concussion, then immediately afterward everyone
who disliked me was suddenly my friend. Mike: Because I was an older guy, in jail for the first
time, not a member of a gang, well educated and
made no show of trying to act like i wanted to be
tough or intimidating, most of the inmates left me
alone. There were some older inmates who
befriended me and most of my cell mates were okay.
There were a couple of young kids who stole some
of my food and various other stupid pranks but I
just let it slide. I was only challenged to fight
once and the challenger was stopped by an ally of
mine. There was also some young guys who wanted to
learn from so I spent time talking to them. There
was a leader of the tier who befriended me and
made sure no one screwed with me too badly. He
played one or two practical jokes on me to test me
in the beginning, but after that we became friends
and everyone knew it so there was very little
harassment.
JM: What types of things did you have to do to avoid problems or fights with other inmates? Victor: I tried to keep to myself. To read, write, play
chess, better myself, and to not be involved with
what was on the television (because that was a big
source of conflict). I had commissary stolen from
me at one point, which eventually led to me beaten
the living shit out of an inmate and then suddenly
it was easy to avoid problems and fights. They
were simply testing me. Mike: Most of the time I just stayed out of the way of
the guys who had something to prove. I am not a
violent or particularly strong man so I just
walked away when I needed to and hung out with the
group of inmate friends I had made. Plus, as I
said above I was friends with the guy who was the
unquestioned leader of the tier so I was generally
not harassed.
JM: Were you able to choose an inmate as your cellmate if you knew one? How often would your cellmate(s) change? Victor: The jail was overcrowded, so they start you on the
floor of the cell. They call it a "boat." There
are 3 people crammed in a tiny cell and eventually
if one of the bunks opens up they give you an
option to usually go to the top bunk, unless the
guy on the bottom bunk wants the top for some
reason. Eventually I had the bunk I wanted and
could request another inmate to move into my cell,
and they would ask also. Cell mates could change
quite a bit, depending on who was in your cell. I
preferred someone who was going to do a lot of
time and would be my bunky for a while. I was not
on good terms with some corrections officers and
they would often put pedophiles in my cell, and I
would force them to check into protective custody.
Out of fear, they never co-operated with the cops
and after I "checked in" a few people in one
month, they stopped doing this. Mike: I was never able to choose a cell mate. I was
pretty lucky with cell mates. There were many of
them and they changed pretty often. I don't
remember having an adversarial relationship with
any of my cell mates. We played cards and one cell
mate and I made a game like ping pong by using our
sandals and a balled up piece of paper.