JM: Did you find it difficult to get along with other inmates? Please give examples to explain why you did or didn't. Jen: I always found that minding your business is the
best policy there were times where you had to
stand your ground or be picked on and singled
out your whole stay Karen: No. I kept to myself and did not get involved with
the drama inside the jail. the drama with women can
be bad so if you stay out of gossip and drama you
are safer. Will: No I didn't mainly because I think I gained a
lot of respect from the other immates for the
way I handled such a harsh enviroment. I rarely
ever complained, except when I would have to go
for more than a week between showers. There is
always a couple of top dogs in a pod and I knew
how to get along with them, even though I had to
talk to them through a locked door in my cell.
As long as the other immates see you talking to
the top dogs you really have nothing to worry
about which was good because that was my first
time in jail and the last. It was hell....
JM: What types of things did you have to do to avoid problems or fights with other inmates? Jen: read books, stay to yourself, did not create
situations that I could not take care of in a
matter that would attract the attention of the
deputys Karen: I avoided fights by staying out of other peoples way
and keeping my opinion and thoughts to myself.
Engaging in gossip is definitely the wrong thing to
do because gossip travels fast and only results in
fights. I did not borrow things from others and I
did not loan my possessions. Will: Nothing really, because like I said I had the
respect of the top dogs so nobody else bothered
with me. Plus I was locked down 24/7 so even if
someone had a problem with me all they could do
would be to yell through a locked door, but I
never had any problems other then telling a few
guys to shut the heck up when they would
constantly cry about being locked down for a few
days. I could have done a few days in lockdown
standing on my head, so I would get irritated by
their constantly bitching when they knew they
would be out if they just shut up.
JM: Were you able to choose an inmate as your cellmate if you knew one? How often would your cellmate(s) change? Jen: there were alot of girls there that I knew from
the outside, many that I knew for a very long
time, so this was not a problem Karen: I was not able to choose a cell mate because I was
placed in a large 'pod' where there were multiple
bunk beds, but we were assigned a bunkmate. You
could not request top or bottom bunk unless you had
a medical issue with being on the top bunk. The
bottom bunk is preferred by most. Will: no cellmate, I wish I did. At least then I could
have had someone to talk to. They wouldn't even
allow me to have a book in my cell. Those days
get pretty long sitting there staring at the
ceiling for 16-17hrs a day.