JM: Did you find it difficult to get along with other inmates? Please give examples to explain why you did or didn't. Roxie: No, not at all. I was not the 'norm' in jail. I
was a 42-year-old woman with two children. I'd
had a great job as a Business Office Manager for
an orthopedic practice; was a Girl Scout Mom; went
to Church. I was told I did not look like the
'average' jail inmate, and thus other inmates
seemed to respect and want to protect me. As I
had been severely injured in the crash, I still
had some residual physical problems and seemed
'fragile' to the other women. Jaime: It wasnt difficult to get along. Most of the people i was in with
were going to be there awhile or were going to prison so we
got to kbow each other a bit. We all tried to make the best of
our time and even have fun.
JM: What types of things did you have to do to avoid problems or fights with other inmates? Roxie: I do not recall having any problems with any of
the other ladies in the jail (inmates nor custody
staff). Butte County Jail is fairly small-town.
At first, I kept to myself, difficult in a 12-man
tank; and stayed out of other's disputes. The
longer I was there, though, the more I adapted and
would mediate disputes. I was very involved in
the on-site ministry, and have found over the
years that if you are seen as a genuine Christian,
there is a respect given. Jaime: I didnt have to go out of my way to avoid problems. As in any
situation a little commen courtesy goes a long way. Being
respectful of different religions, sexualities and life
experiances helps. Having fun the best we could helped. So
does not prying into other peoples personal lives.
JM: Were you able to choose an inmate as your cellmate if you knew one? How often would your cellmate(s) change? Roxie: No, I was fortunate to be placed in the
'misdemeanor' tank, though I was there for a felony.
The custody staff were very nice, and seemed
concerned. I was always in a cell with at least 8-
12, and never had a problem. There was frequent
turnover, of course. Jaime: No, i didnt have the option of choosing a cellmate. Cellmates
didnt change much, just if someone was bailed out, released,
moved or sent to prison. However after about a week i was
moved to an open pod and bunks were not assigned. It was
still really overcrowded and over a week before i got an
actual bunk, i moved to a better bunk after a month or so. A
few people came through who were there a week or less, but
for the most part i was in there with the same group of people